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Archana Kapoor Nagpal is an internationally published author of four books. She often participates in the short story competitions, and her winning stories are now part of international anthologies. She has seen her short stories, poems and Haiku published in other anthologies as well She has also been actively involved in the editing, proofreading and book designing of various anthologies. You can read more about her writing career at the below link: https://www.facebook.com/archanaknagpal/

Monday, December 13, 2010

I have ‘Attitude’ but I am not ‘Arrogant’

It is rightly said that ‘Ego’ at the right place and time is ‘Attitude’ and ‘Attitude’ at wrong place and time is ‘Arrogance’.

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to most us, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.

We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes.

Hold attitude but without arrogance. It feels good to hear that I have ‘Attitude’ but I am not ‘Arrogant’.