If you have read the below two links then let me tell you the climate today really rocks!
I can see the midnight blue sky and moon playing hide and seek. Its look seductiveJ
I got drenched in rain while coming back from work and the first thing I do is make a cup of black coffee and two chocolate cookies to beat my hunger of 5 hoursJ
Ok!!!
What I do to love myself more other than the above two links.
Take a paper and pen it down – things you want to change about yourself. Yes, there are many things we want to change to be a better person in our own eyes. Nothing bad about it!
Here is my list.
1) I want to study ahead and this time maybe a foreign language. Now you must be thinking what does this has to do with changing myself. Well, for last couple of months I am enquiring but then I postpone this for some no reason. So now I need to get myself enrolled for the next session. I want to change this ‘Postponing’ attitude of mine.
2) I am very bad in expressing emotions. The clarity with which I pose myself as practical fails when it comes to be expressive emotionally. So need to work on thoughts like family, relatives etc. I am too cold towards these relationships.
3) I am a cleanliness freak. When I stay in a hotel as part of work commitments or vacation, I clean the room before leaving for work/leisure. I might take away the jobs of housekeeping guysJ. I want to get rid of this act of mine, as over and excess of anything is bad. I waste my time by cleaning things that are clean as somewhere I have this psychological problem that things are not clean. I add stress to my mind and body by engaging in over cleaning activities.
4) I am too strict with my diet. I agree it looks good to be in shape and when at 31 you can fit into UK 6 or UK 8 but sometimes I kill my appetite or temptation to manage my weight and medical problems. I refrain from cheating when I go out with my family or friends that sometimes disappoint them. So I want to get into the mode of ‘Cheat for a day’.
5) I am too straight forward or over clear hearted and this is not a quality of mine in all aspects. Sometimes people get hurt or they might think ‘Gosh! This lady is so outspoken’. I am working on this but still lot needs to be done. Sometimes one has to be diplomatic. My face is a mirror to my heart. If I am sad anybody can read and if I am happy the whole world knows about!
6) I hate to be honest. I do not want to be that type anymore. Few lies can make life so cheerful and fun till the time nobody is harm.
So make your list and just make yourself a better person as you love yourself. So do I!
Before I log off for the day, I am dedicating a song to myself ‘I love you (YOU IS MYSELF HERE)’...but this is mainly for my Indian readers....
CheerioJ
Love Yourself...Amilo TuttiJ
