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Archana Kapoor Nagpal is an internationally published author of four books. She often participates in the short story competitions, and her winning stories are now part of international anthologies. She has seen her short stories, poems and Haiku published in other anthologies as well She has also been actively involved in the editing, proofreading and book designing of various anthologies. You can read more about her writing career at the below link: https://www.facebook.com/archanaknagpal/

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Month of Celebration - Love, Sex or Dhokha!!

Good Morning!

Lol.
I slipped last night and have injured my right knee. I was in immense pain so could not sleep for the whole nightJ. I am awake for last 5 hours and while turning sides, I was disturbing my husband tooJ. Could not bear the pain so popped up a pain killer(:
I got up and sat in the living room thinking about nothing!
When you think nothing that is the time, ideas will start floating. This is the month of LOVE.
I was thinking how people perceive love in this world. And I could chalk out different definitions. Sometimes we are in relation and we are not able to figure out whether it is love or commitment or just sexual attraction.
I kept probing into this when the clock showed 5:30 am (IST) and here I am sitting and bloggingJ
When you are in love, you can live without that person as it is not sexual attraction. You do not want him or her to be around all the time whether emotionally or physically. Sex becomes secondary then. You will accept the person the way he or she is and much above if things do not go the way you wanted, you will still be in love. But there is no replacement!
But when it is sexual attraction, you very well know you miss that person for desires or demands. You can easily replace him or her and move on! There are replacements when it is sexual attraction and it is just around personal satisfaction.
There is thin line of difference between sex and love but it makes a big difference the day you understand what are you looking in a relationship? – love or sex.
But there is one thing to both of them – level of trust and sense of commitment. For love or sex you need to go through the road of trust and commitment. Ideally, anyone should!

As we say – ‘It is easy to commit. Much easier is to break the commitment. What is difficult is to live up to your commitment’

This is month of LOVE so decide and understand are you in love or it is just sexual attraction. I am sharing few dates that make this month quite happening for all those who are single and are ready to mingleJ. It might be helpful for those who spend their lives around days and datesJ

February celebration days:

7 Feb  Rose Day

8 Feb  Propose Day

9 Feb  Chocolate Day

10 Feb Teddy Day

11 Feb Promise Day

12 Feb Kiss Day

13 Feb Hug Day

14 Feb VALENTINE'S DAY

17 Feb Perfume Day

18 Feb Flirting Day

19 Feb Confession Day

20 Feb Missing Day

Will try to sleep now!